Arranging a Funeral

Arranging a funeral while grieving is difficult. It is one of the many things you will need to handle — for a full overview, see our guide on what to do when someone dies. Here's practical guidance to help you through the process.

First steps

• Check if the deceased left any funeral wishes (in their will or elsewhere) - the executor is usually responsible for this
• Register the death - you'll need the green form before a funeral can proceed
• Choose a funeral director or decide to arrange it yourself
• Decide between burial and cremation

Using a funeral director

Most people use a funeral director. They will:

• Collect and care for the deceased
• Help you plan the service
• Handle paperwork and bookings
• Provide a hearse and other vehicles
• Coordinate everything on the day

Get a detailed written quote before agreeing. Funeral costs vary significantly.

Costs to consider

Funeral costs typically include:

• Funeral director's fees
• Cremation fees or burial plot costs
• Doctor's fees (for cremation)
• Minister or celebrant
• Flowers
• Venue for wake or reception
• Headstone or memorial
• Newspaper announcements

Paying for the funeral

Funeral costs can be paid from:

• The deceased's estate (banks may release funds before probate for funeral expenses)
• Pre-paid funeral plans
• Funeral Expenses Payment (if you're on certain benefits)
• Life insurance payouts
• Personal funds (reimbursed from estate later)

Types of funeral

• Traditional funeral: Full service at church or crematorium
• Direct cremation or burial: Simplest option, no ceremony, lower cost
• Woodland burial: Environmentally friendly option in natural burial grounds
• Celebration of life: Less formal, focused on celebrating the person

The order of service

Typical elements include:

• Music - entrance, during service, exit
• Readings - poems, religious texts, personal choices
• Eulogy - a tribute to the deceased
• Prayers or reflection (depending on the type of service)
• Committal - the final farewell